In everything, give thanks…. (1 Thess. 5:18)

In a recent interview with sports executive David Meltzer, he shared a profound insight: “Those who have more gratitude and more forgiveness are the best golfers.”

This idea resonates deeply, not just in the world of golf but in our everyday lives as well. Meltzer’s words challenge us to consider the internal states of our hearts and minds while we engage in this beloved game—and beyond.

The mental and emotional aspects of golf are often overlooked amidst discussions about swing mechanics and technique. Yet, the truth is, our attitude plays a crucial role in how we perform. It’s easy to focus on the technical side of things, but what about our mindset? Meltzer’s assertion emphasizes that to excel, we must cultivate gratitude and forgiveness.

The Apostle Paul exhorts us in 1 Thessalonians 5:18, “In everything give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.” This biblical directive serves as a reminder that gratitude is not only beneficial but is a vital part of our spiritual journey.

Imagine standing on the golf course, reflecting on a challenging round. Instead of dwelling on the missed putts or errant drives, try expressing, “Praise the Lord!” This simple act can transform your perspective, allowing you to embrace the moment and move forward.

Gratitude helps us appreciate the beauty of the game, the friendships forged, and the lessons learned, even in our failures. Each swing and round is an opportunity to grow—not just as golfers but as individuals striving for excellence in all areas of life.

Similarly, forgiveness plays a pivotal role. Meltzer points out that if we cannot forgive ourselves, we hinder our progress. Reflect on Philippians 3:13-14: “Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.” The ability to release our past mistakes is essential, both on the golf course and in our spiritual journeys.

Consider the golfers you know who are incredibly talented but struggle to elevate their game due to self-criticism. They are haunted by past performances, unable to let go of missed opportunities. Their potential is stunted by their inability to embrace forgiveness. The same can happen in our lives when we hold onto guilt, regret, or resentment.

Letting go of these burdens requires an intentional choice to forgive ourselves and others. Forgiveness opens the door to progress, allowing us to learn from our mistakes without being defined by them. It allows us to embrace the present and strive for future growth, just as we do when we step up to the tee, ready for a new shot.

As you approach your next round of golf or any challenging situation in life, remember the importance of cultivating gratitude and forgiveness. Practice saying, “Praise the Lord!” when things don’t go as planned. Challenge yourself to release past mistakes and press on toward the goals that God has set before you.

Incorporating these principles into our lives—both on and off the course—can transform our experiences, making each moment an opportunity to grow in faith and grace. Just as the best golfers thrive on gratitude and forgiveness, so too can we navigate our lives with a heart full of appreciation and the freedom that comes from letting go.

Prayer: Lord, may we all learn to play the game of life with the same spirit, finding joy in every swing, every shot, and every moment, all for the glory of God.