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2023 Advent Fridays – A Supreme Joy

December 15, 2023

Taste and see that the LORD is good. Oh, the joys of those who take refuge in Him! (Psalm 34:8)

There are very few joys that compare with making a hole-in-one. No doubt you have either experienced or been with another player when the ball rolls into the cup for a one. It’s electric! High Fives are flying! Hugs are abundant! Heck, even your opponent is grinning like a “mule eat’in briars.”

Unbridled expressions of joy are rare in golf. Holing out from the fairway usually puts a skip into our step. A fortuitous bounce off a tree into the fairway almost always elicits a smile. However, as we all know, these little joys tend to fade.

As we prepare for Christmas, we would do well to remember that we serve the festive God of all joys. Contrary to a widely accepted caricature, “God is not a cosmic killjoy. In fact, he is the Cosmic Merrymaker!”

He is the one who invented taste buds and laughter; music and dancing were his ideas. In truth, everything good that we enjoy – from sports to sunsets- ultimately finds its origin in the mind of God.

Far from being opposed to our joy, God is the source of our joy. He is not only the source of the joy we derive from sports and sunsets. He, himself, is humanity’s supreme joy.

In other words, God is the one joy that makes every other joy complete. Apart from a living and loving relationship with God, we cannot truly or fully enjoy his world.

Why? For the same reason, we find sleep less restful or food less satisfying when we have relationship troubles with our significant other or a close friend: relational estrangement diminishes creational enjoyment.

This principle holds, but even more so when it comes to our relationship with God. You see, God is, in fact, our one true love (in a cosmic sense) that we cannot live without. He is the one for whom our souls were ultimately made.

Only when we are in the right relationship with Him can we find proper satisfaction in our relationships with each other and the world. Loving and being loved by God makes everything better: food tastes better, music sounds better, work is more fulfilling, etc.

Everything is better because we are no longer looking to food, success, or our spouse to do what only God can do for us in Christ: make us whole and complete, give us an objective identity and purpose, forgive us our sins, and fill us with life.

Everything in life takes its proper place and purpose when we realize that God is the center around which everything else is intended to orbit. Indeed, if we place anything other than God at the center of our lives, we will sabotage our own joy.

  1. S. Lewis writes, “It would seem that Our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak. We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at sea. We are far too easily pleased…God cannot give us a happiness and peace apart from himself, because it is not there. There is no such thing.”

In other words, he invites us to make him our deepest joy. In doing so, we discover our highest good and superlative joy—life with God. Remember, the joys we experience in this life are small samplings of an infinite and eternal joy in the life to come.

Prayer: Lord, strengthen our lives with joy!

Jono Darville
Pub Date: December 15, 2023

About The Author

Jono Darville is a Global Master Trainer with The Center for Leadership Studies and former Co-Leader of the New York branch of Models for Christ (an international non-profit bringing the gospel to the fashion industry). Jono is finishing an M.A. in the Philosophy of Religion at SEBTS, while serving as a Ruling Elder and Youth Director at Peace Church in Cary, NC. He and his wife, Jillian, have one son, Jono Jr.